Gateway
Don Juan
hey any PUAs in vancouver it'd be nice to have some company i'm actually not bad approaching is a where my weakness is but once i've approached i can really dish out my game so if anyone is looking for a wing during the pickup...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Any PUAs in Vancouver
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
Im in vancouver.. anyone else here from van?
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah same here..surrey area..
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Don Juan
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
any good places to sarge around here?
Hey, i'm in Vancouver too. A bunch of us should get together and sarge at one of the clubs downtown. Atlantis for asian girls, though i find them the hardest; library square on fridays for 80's rock night, for some reason, tons of 17-24 year old HBs (at least the last time I was there). I heared Plush and Tonic are supposed to be good too, but i've never been.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah we should get together.. i got hook ups to clubs seein as i use to be a promoter.. but i rather go somewhere else.. not always clubs u know..
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah thats the only problem.. only places i could think of are downtown or metrotown i dont know many other places..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
haha .. man I want to start like a hitch type thing in vancouver.. any good ideas on how i could go about doin that?
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah ima try to go by word of mouth more.. you have msn guy.. so we can talk about **** in surrey or van? pm me..
AsianPlayboy
Banned
I'll be in Vancouver teaching at the end of October. Done programs in Montreal and Toronto, but I hear that supposedly Vancouver tops them all when it comes to quality. Can't wait!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
newseducer
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