Gateway
Don Juan
hey any PUAs in vancouver it'd be nice to have some company i'm actually not bad approaching is a where my weakness is but once i've approached i can really dish out my game so if anyone is looking for a wing during the pickup...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Any PUAs in Vancouver
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
Im in vancouver.. anyone else here from van?
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah same here..surrey area..
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Don Juan
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
any good places to sarge around here?
Hey, i'm in Vancouver too. A bunch of us should get together and sarge at one of the clubs downtown. Atlantis for asian girls, though i find them the hardest; library square on fridays for 80's rock night, for some reason, tons of 17-24 year old HBs (at least the last time I was there). I heared Plush and Tonic are supposed to be good too, but i've never been.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah we should get together.. i got hook ups to clubs seein as i use to be a promoter.. but i rather go somewhere else.. not always clubs u know..
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah thats the only problem.. only places i could think of are downtown or metrotown i dont know many other places..
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Kazzanova
Don Juan
haha .. man I want to start like a hitch type thing in vancouver.. any good ideas on how i could go about doin that?
Kazzanova
Don Juan
yeah ima try to go by word of mouth more.. you have msn guy.. so we can talk about **** in surrey or van? pm me..
AsianPlayboy
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I'll be in Vancouver teaching at the end of October. Done programs in Montreal and Toronto, but I hear that supposedly Vancouver tops them all when it comes to quality. Can't wait!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
newseducer
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