Tha Realnezz
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Any movies to learn from?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Only the first half of the movie. Then it turns into a total AFC-film.
The moral of the movie is basically "Just be yourself and in the end the woman of your dreams will see the REAL you and fall madly, deeply in love with you...no matter how clumsy or geeky you are".
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
FunkyMillion
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what about Batman Begins
the character of Bruce Wayne is portrayed very well by Christian Bale.
the character of Bruce Wayne is portrayed very well by Christian Bale.
Serialized3
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I can't believe nobody's mentioned the TAO OF STEVE, starring...some dude.
Tao of Steve covers some pretty good principles of attraction. Check it out.
Tao of Steve covers some pretty good principles of attraction. Check it out.
James Bonds are good
I'd recommend firstly any movies with the James Bond actors, in particular Sean Connery, Roger Moore and Pierce Brosnan. Observe their mannerisms when they're around people especially women. They never seem flustered or unsure of how to act etc.
Also Cary Grant in the 50s was good as a charmer, gentleman with a bit of sharp wit. He was also good in that he never threw himself at women, often they threw themselves at him due to his charm and charisma.
As another guy mentioned, Rodger Dodger is good to watch; a player teaching his kid. Good for aspiring players.
Also good is Harrison Ford in roles such as Indiana Jones and as Han Solo in the Star Wars movies.
And lastly Hitch wasn't bad, until the last 30mins where he acts like an AFC at the end.
I'd recommend firstly any movies with the James Bond actors, in particular Sean Connery, Roger Moore and Pierce Brosnan. Observe their mannerisms when they're around people especially women. They never seem flustered or unsure of how to act etc.
Also Cary Grant in the 50s was good as a charmer, gentleman with a bit of sharp wit. He was also good in that he never threw himself at women, often they threw themselves at him due to his charm and charisma.
As another guy mentioned, Rodger Dodger is good to watch; a player teaching his kid. Good for aspiring players.
Also good is Harrison Ford in roles such as Indiana Jones and as Han Solo in the Star Wars movies.
And lastly Hitch wasn't bad, until the last 30mins where he acts like an AFC at the end.
El MonoLoco
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Serialized3 am I invisible????
Do people even read the replys in this place?
Do people even read the replys in this place?
The_Lifter
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Thomas Crown affair for mannerisms.
BTW, anyone know where I can find The Tao Of Steve online, ya know, just to check it out before I buy it
BTW, anyone know where I can find The Tao Of Steve online, ya know, just to check it out before I buy it
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
aiforce_juan
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yep, i liked batman begins too. Damn, i loved this movie
Rodger Dodger is an EXCELLENT film. The scene where he gets his newphew to talk to the girls in the bar is really good.
The Tao of Steve SUCKED.
Also, check out the movie "body shots". See the AFC who can't hold his liqour versus the alpha male football player played by Jerry O'Connell.
The Tao of Steve SUCKED.
Also, check out the movie "body shots". See the AFC who can't hold his liqour versus the alpha male football player played by Jerry O'Connell.
theSpeculator
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hell yeah