"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Any movies to learn from?

Tha Realnezz

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2004
Messages
1,352
Reaction score
8
None.

:down:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

DJ4Real

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2005
Messages
942
Reaction score
0
The ideas of Hitch are good.

James Bond (sean connery)
 

\O/

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2005
Messages
573
Reaction score
12
Originally posted by DJ4Real
The ideas of Hitch are good.

Only the first half of the movie. Then it turns into a total AFC-film.
The moral of the movie is basically "Just be yourself and in the end the woman of your dreams will see the REAL you and fall madly, deeply in love with you...no matter how clumsy or geeky you are".
 

DJ4Real

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2005
Messages
942
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by \O/
Only the first half of the movie. Then it turns into a total AFC-film.
The moral of the movie is basically "Just be yourself and in the end the woman of your dreams will see the REAL you and fall madly, deeply in love with you...no matter how clumsy or geeky you are".
Yeah...only the first half is what a DJ should take note on.
 

ShawnLG

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 19, 2006
Messages
10
Reaction score
0
Location
Jersey
The movie Taffin

The main character is an example of an alpha male. Watch his additude and his way of thinking.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

FunkyMillion

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 3, 2003
Messages
54
Reaction score
0
Age
44
what about Batman Begins

the character of Bruce Wayne is portrayed very well by Christian Bale.
 

Serialized3

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2003
Messages
1,148
Reaction score
18
Location
CO
I can't believe nobody's mentioned the TAO OF STEVE, starring...some dude.

Tao of Steve covers some pretty good principles of attraction. Check it out.
 

ali_g

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 15, 2002
Messages
199
Reaction score
0
James Bonds are good

I'd recommend firstly any movies with the James Bond actors, in particular Sean Connery, Roger Moore and Pierce Brosnan. Observe their mannerisms when they're around people especially women. They never seem flustered or unsure of how to act etc.

Also Cary Grant in the 50s was good as a charmer, gentleman with a bit of sharp wit. He was also good in that he never threw himself at women, often they threw themselves at him due to his charm and charisma.

As another guy mentioned, Rodger Dodger is good to watch; a player teaching his kid. Good for aspiring players.

Also good is Harrison Ford in roles such as Indiana Jones and as Han Solo in the Star Wars movies.

And lastly Hitch wasn't bad, until the last 30mins where he acts like an AFC at the end.
 

The_Lifter

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 15, 2006
Messages
107
Reaction score
0
Age
42
Location
UK
Thomas Crown affair for mannerisms.

BTW, anyone know where I can find The Tao Of Steve online, ya know, just to check it out before I buy it ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

aiforce_juan

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2006
Messages
36
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by FunkyMillion
what about Batman Begins

the character of Bruce Wayne is portrayed very well by Christian Bale.
yep, i liked batman begins too. Damn, i loved this movie
 

djjoe

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2004
Messages
62
Reaction score
0
i`d have to agree with fight club...

good movie....

can teach you alot about society and yourself....
 

Xericx

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 5, 2006
Messages
67
Reaction score
0
Rodger Dodger is an EXCELLENT film. The scene where he gets his newphew to talk to the girls in the bar is really good.

The Tao of Steve SUCKED.

Also, check out the movie "body shots". See the AFC who can't hold his liqour versus the alpha male football player played by Jerry O'Connell.
 
Top