Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Any movies to learn from?

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The ideas of Hitch are good.

James Bond (sean connery)
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
The ideas of Hitch are good.

Only the first half of the movie. Then it turns into a total AFC-film.
The moral of the movie is basically "Just be yourself and in the end the woman of your dreams will see the REAL you and fall madly, deeply in love with you...no matter how clumsy or geeky you are".
 

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Originally posted by \O/
Only the first half of the movie. Then it turns into a total AFC-film.
The moral of the movie is basically "Just be yourself and in the end the woman of your dreams will see the REAL you and fall madly, deeply in love with you...no matter how clumsy or geeky you are".
Yeah...only the first half is what a DJ should take note on.
 

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The movie Taffin

The main character is an example of an alpha male. Watch his additude and his way of thinking.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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what about Batman Begins

the character of Bruce Wayne is portrayed very well by Christian Bale.
 

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I can't believe nobody's mentioned the TAO OF STEVE, starring...some dude.

Tao of Steve covers some pretty good principles of attraction. Check it out.
 

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James Bonds are good

I'd recommend firstly any movies with the James Bond actors, in particular Sean Connery, Roger Moore and Pierce Brosnan. Observe their mannerisms when they're around people especially women. They never seem flustered or unsure of how to act etc.

Also Cary Grant in the 50s was good as a charmer, gentleman with a bit of sharp wit. He was also good in that he never threw himself at women, often they threw themselves at him due to his charm and charisma.

As another guy mentioned, Rodger Dodger is good to watch; a player teaching his kid. Good for aspiring players.

Also good is Harrison Ford in roles such as Indiana Jones and as Han Solo in the Star Wars movies.

And lastly Hitch wasn't bad, until the last 30mins where he acts like an AFC at the end.
 

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Thomas Crown affair for mannerisms.

BTW, anyone know where I can find The Tao Of Steve online, ya know, just to check it out before I buy it ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by FunkyMillion
what about Batman Begins

the character of Bruce Wayne is portrayed very well by Christian Bale.
yep, i liked batman begins too. Damn, i loved this movie
 

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i`d have to agree with fight club...

good movie....

can teach you alot about society and yourself....
 

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Rodger Dodger is an EXCELLENT film. The scene where he gets his newphew to talk to the girls in the bar is really good.

The Tao of Steve SUCKED.

Also, check out the movie "body shots". See the AFC who can't hold his liqour versus the alpha male football player played by Jerry O'Connell.
 
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