Tha Realnezz
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Any movies to learn from?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Only the first half of the movie. Then it turns into a total AFC-film.
The moral of the movie is basically "Just be yourself and in the end the woman of your dreams will see the REAL you and fall madly, deeply in love with you...no matter how clumsy or geeky you are".
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FunkyMillion
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what about Batman Begins
the character of Bruce Wayne is portrayed very well by Christian Bale.
the character of Bruce Wayne is portrayed very well by Christian Bale.
Serialized3
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I can't believe nobody's mentioned the TAO OF STEVE, starring...some dude.
Tao of Steve covers some pretty good principles of attraction. Check it out.
Tao of Steve covers some pretty good principles of attraction. Check it out.
James Bonds are good
I'd recommend firstly any movies with the James Bond actors, in particular Sean Connery, Roger Moore and Pierce Brosnan. Observe their mannerisms when they're around people especially women. They never seem flustered or unsure of how to act etc.
Also Cary Grant in the 50s was good as a charmer, gentleman with a bit of sharp wit. He was also good in that he never threw himself at women, often they threw themselves at him due to his charm and charisma.
As another guy mentioned, Rodger Dodger is good to watch; a player teaching his kid. Good for aspiring players.
Also good is Harrison Ford in roles such as Indiana Jones and as Han Solo in the Star Wars movies.
And lastly Hitch wasn't bad, until the last 30mins where he acts like an AFC at the end.
I'd recommend firstly any movies with the James Bond actors, in particular Sean Connery, Roger Moore and Pierce Brosnan. Observe their mannerisms when they're around people especially women. They never seem flustered or unsure of how to act etc.
Also Cary Grant in the 50s was good as a charmer, gentleman with a bit of sharp wit. He was also good in that he never threw himself at women, often they threw themselves at him due to his charm and charisma.
As another guy mentioned, Rodger Dodger is good to watch; a player teaching his kid. Good for aspiring players.
Also good is Harrison Ford in roles such as Indiana Jones and as Han Solo in the Star Wars movies.
And lastly Hitch wasn't bad, until the last 30mins where he acts like an AFC at the end.
El MonoLoco
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Serialized3 am I invisible????
Do people even read the replys in this place?
Do people even read the replys in this place?
The_Lifter
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Thomas Crown affair for mannerisms.
BTW, anyone know where I can find The Tao Of Steve online, ya know, just to check it out before I buy it
BTW, anyone know where I can find The Tao Of Steve online, ya know, just to check it out before I buy it
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
aiforce_juan
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yep, i liked batman begins too. Damn, i loved this movie
Rodger Dodger is an EXCELLENT film. The scene where he gets his newphew to talk to the girls in the bar is really good.
The Tao of Steve SUCKED.
Also, check out the movie "body shots". See the AFC who can't hold his liqour versus the alpha male football player played by Jerry O'Connell.
The Tao of Steve SUCKED.
Also, check out the movie "body shots". See the AFC who can't hold his liqour versus the alpha male football player played by Jerry O'Connell.
theSpeculator
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hell yeah