"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Any movies to learn from?

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The ideas of Hitch are good.

James Bond (sean connery)
 

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Originally posted by DJ4Real
The ideas of Hitch are good.

Only the first half of the movie. Then it turns into a total AFC-film.
The moral of the movie is basically "Just be yourself and in the end the woman of your dreams will see the REAL you and fall madly, deeply in love with you...no matter how clumsy or geeky you are".
 

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Originally posted by \O/
Only the first half of the movie. Then it turns into a total AFC-film.
The moral of the movie is basically "Just be yourself and in the end the woman of your dreams will see the REAL you and fall madly, deeply in love with you...no matter how clumsy or geeky you are".
Yeah...only the first half is what a DJ should take note on.
 

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The movie Taffin

The main character is an example of an alpha male. Watch his additude and his way of thinking.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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what about Batman Begins

the character of Bruce Wayne is portrayed very well by Christian Bale.
 

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I can't believe nobody's mentioned the TAO OF STEVE, starring...some dude.

Tao of Steve covers some pretty good principles of attraction. Check it out.
 

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James Bonds are good

I'd recommend firstly any movies with the James Bond actors, in particular Sean Connery, Roger Moore and Pierce Brosnan. Observe their mannerisms when they're around people especially women. They never seem flustered or unsure of how to act etc.

Also Cary Grant in the 50s was good as a charmer, gentleman with a bit of sharp wit. He was also good in that he never threw himself at women, often they threw themselves at him due to his charm and charisma.

As another guy mentioned, Rodger Dodger is good to watch; a player teaching his kid. Good for aspiring players.

Also good is Harrison Ford in roles such as Indiana Jones and as Han Solo in the Star Wars movies.

And lastly Hitch wasn't bad, until the last 30mins where he acts like an AFC at the end.
 

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Thomas Crown affair for mannerisms.

BTW, anyone know where I can find The Tao Of Steve online, ya know, just to check it out before I buy it ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by FunkyMillion
what about Batman Begins

the character of Bruce Wayne is portrayed very well by Christian Bale.
yep, i liked batman begins too. Damn, i loved this movie
 

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i`d have to agree with fight club...

good movie....

can teach you alot about society and yourself....
 

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Rodger Dodger is an EXCELLENT film. The scene where he gets his newphew to talk to the girls in the bar is really good.

The Tao of Steve SUCKED.

Also, check out the movie "body shots". See the AFC who can't hold his liqour versus the alpha male football player played by Jerry O'Connell.
 
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