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Don Juan
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who has children here and still DJ's there asses off?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).Mr.Positive said:If your kids are cute, use them as bait. Kinda like walking using your dog to meet chicks...
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!KarmaSutra said:Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).
When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.
Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No pressure there KarmaLast Man Standing said:If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
I have 4 kids.Last Man Standing said:If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
that is actually so sweet man! i mean, you spend time with your daughter and simultaneously train her to be a good responsible woman.KarmaSutra said:Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).
When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.
Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.