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Don Juan
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- Jul 9, 2007
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who has children here and still DJ's there asses off?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).Mr.Positive said:If your kids are cute, use them as bait. Kinda like walking using your dog to meet chicks...
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!KarmaSutra said:Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).
When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.
Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No pressure there KarmaLast Man Standing said:If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
I have 4 kids.Last Man Standing said:If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
that is actually so sweet man! i mean, you spend time with your daughter and simultaneously train her to be a good responsible woman.KarmaSutra said:Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).
When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.
Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.