Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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any mature DJ's here have kids?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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just the ones i drop off at the pool every morning.
 

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If your kids are cute, use them as bait. Kinda like walking using your dog to meet chicks...
 

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Mr.Positive said:
If your kids are cute, use them as bait. Kinda like walking using your dog to meet chicks...
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).

When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.

Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).

When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.

Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Last Man Standing said:
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
No pressure there Karma :) ....as long as she remains a virgin until she's married, you will have done your job well..

Based upon your posts that I've read, you've already done your job well.

If I marry someday and have kids, I'd like to think I'll spread my "marriage" knowledge on this board too someday..
 

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Last Man Standing said:
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
I have 4 kids.

As far as DJing goes there is some truth to the ease and availability and automatic social proof you have with single mothers. I have been down that path with several young, very hot, single mothers. Unfortunately, the flaws that contributed to their breakups remain un-repaired. Most were looking for an immediate LTR or a rescuer and they have much baggage.

More and more I have focused my DJ activities away from my kids and I am finding the quality of women much higher who are not single mommies. I don’t know how to put it but they are literally “lighter” as far as having fun and being flexible in doing fun things.

My daughter is entering medical school and I am very proud of her. She has remained true to one man, and although she and he have not married yet and she is not a “virgin”, nevertheless, she is of the highest caliber person I know.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).

When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.

Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
that is actually so sweet man! i mean, you spend time with your daughter and simultaneously train her to be a good responsible woman.:up:

thing is I just get so AFC when it comes to family... i don't have a need for a woman really, but i just curl and become soft and afc'ish when it comes to wanting a kid!! why are my fatherly instincts kickin in so early!!?? gah.
 
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