"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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any mature DJ's here have kids?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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just the ones i drop off at the pool every morning.
 

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If your kids are cute, use them as bait. Kinda like walking using your dog to meet chicks...
 

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Mr.Positive said:
If your kids are cute, use them as bait. Kinda like walking using your dog to meet chicks...
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).

When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.

Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).

When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.

Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Last Man Standing said:
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
No pressure there Karma :) ....as long as she remains a virgin until she's married, you will have done your job well..

Based upon your posts that I've read, you've already done your job well.

If I marry someday and have kids, I'd like to think I'll spread my "marriage" knowledge on this board too someday..
 

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Last Man Standing said:
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
I have 4 kids.

As far as DJing goes there is some truth to the ease and availability and automatic social proof you have with single mothers. I have been down that path with several young, very hot, single mothers. Unfortunately, the flaws that contributed to their breakups remain un-repaired. Most were looking for an immediate LTR or a rescuer and they have much baggage.

More and more I have focused my DJ activities away from my kids and I am finding the quality of women much higher who are not single mommies. I don’t know how to put it but they are literally “lighter” as far as having fun and being flexible in doing fun things.

My daughter is entering medical school and I am very proud of her. She has remained true to one man, and although she and he have not married yet and she is not a “virgin”, nevertheless, she is of the highest caliber person I know.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).

When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.

Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
that is actually so sweet man! i mean, you spend time with your daughter and simultaneously train her to be a good responsible woman.:up:

thing is I just get so AFC when it comes to family... i don't have a need for a woman really, but i just curl and become soft and afc'ish when it comes to wanting a kid!! why are my fatherly instincts kickin in so early!!?? gah.
 
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