"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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any mature DJ's here have kids?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just the ones i drop off at the pool every morning.
 

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If your kids are cute, use them as bait. Kinda like walking using your dog to meet chicks...
 

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Mr.Positive said:
If your kids are cute, use them as bait. Kinda like walking using your dog to meet chicks...
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).

When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.

Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
 
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KarmaSutra said:
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).

When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.

Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Last Man Standing said:
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
No pressure there Karma :) ....as long as she remains a virgin until she's married, you will have done your job well..

Based upon your posts that I've read, you've already done your job well.

If I marry someday and have kids, I'd like to think I'll spread my "marriage" knowledge on this board too someday..
 

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Last Man Standing said:
If she remains a virgin until marriage then you have done well as a father. otherwise you have utterly failed - this is THE measure!!!!!!
I have 4 kids.

As far as DJing goes there is some truth to the ease and availability and automatic social proof you have with single mothers. I have been down that path with several young, very hot, single mothers. Unfortunately, the flaws that contributed to their breakups remain un-repaired. Most were looking for an immediate LTR or a rescuer and they have much baggage.

More and more I have focused my DJ activities away from my kids and I am finding the quality of women much higher who are not single mommies. I don’t know how to put it but they are literally “lighter” as far as having fun and being flexible in doing fun things.

My daughter is entering medical school and I am very proud of her. She has remained true to one man, and although she and he have not married yet and she is not a “virgin”, nevertheless, she is of the highest caliber person I know.
 

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KarmaSutra said:
Crude and immature but it rings true nonetheless. Li'l K is almost thirteen and a goddamned dynamo inside and out (her game is flawless even at this age).

When she and I are out without the Mrs. I certainly notice a distinct " hmmm, he's got his sh!t together" vibe from my opposite gender.

Li'l K is an extension and result of my clarity as a Father and as a life teacher to her. So you Dads here need to step your game up to the highest level because this is where our next generaion DJ's should be getting thier info and direction.
that is actually so sweet man! i mean, you spend time with your daughter and simultaneously train her to be a good responsible woman.:up:

thing is I just get so AFC when it comes to family... i don't have a need for a woman really, but i just curl and become soft and afc'ish when it comes to wanting a kid!! why are my fatherly instincts kickin in so early!!?? gah.
 
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