"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Any Frickin Ways to Stop Jackin Off!!!

Silverant

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aifia said:
how would you know if someone cheats... did you guys check each other everyday? haha jk

K don't tell but I cheated like 2 weeks in. Still, it was hard (lol...hard) and I'm sure they cheated too at least once
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Grey Fox

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There's nothing wrong with doing it every now and again (about twice a week), but it's just if you do it all the time (like I used to) it can be considered laziness... most of the time they're rubbish anyway. Cutting down on it is very possible, but giving up completely is much harder.
 

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Here is a way to stop.

Get a fvcken life. If you are out in public or with friends, I don't think that you would whip it out and jerk off.

Also, getting a girlfriend helps with it.

I remember when I used to jerk it three times a day before I found sosuave, but now it might be once every five days.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Supremo

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Yeah bro why do you wanna stop?

Crankin your soulja boy is a GOOD thing.

Relieves stress and feels great.
 

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macking

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There's NO WAY to stop it ... the most "dangerous" way to stop it is when you wake up in the morning and say to yourself " I'm not gonna jack off today". That doesn't work, it just increase your will to do it.

It's good to have some interesting things to do ... but still i think, there's NO way to stop it.

SO JACK OFF :p cause is natural :D plus is fun
 

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Well right now I have a bet going with at TON of people in my school. It's a catholic school and ash wednesday wasn't long ago, so we started then and whoever lasts the longest wins. That works well if you don't like to loose at anything (me) ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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