"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Any Frickin Ways to Stop Jackin Off!!!

Silverant

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aifia said:
how would you know if someone cheats... did you guys check each other everyday? haha jk

K don't tell but I cheated like 2 weeks in. Still, it was hard (lol...hard) and I'm sure they cheated too at least once
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Grey Fox

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There's nothing wrong with doing it every now and again (about twice a week), but it's just if you do it all the time (like I used to) it can be considered laziness... most of the time they're rubbish anyway. Cutting down on it is very possible, but giving up completely is much harder.
 

comic_relief

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Here is a way to stop.

Get a fvcken life. If you are out in public or with friends, I don't think that you would whip it out and jerk off.

Also, getting a girlfriend helps with it.

I remember when I used to jerk it three times a day before I found sosuave, but now it might be once every five days.

comic_relief
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Supremo

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Yeah bro why do you wanna stop?

Crankin your soulja boy is a GOOD thing.

Relieves stress and feels great.
 

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macking

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There's NO WAY to stop it ... the most "dangerous" way to stop it is when you wake up in the morning and say to yourself " I'm not gonna jack off today". That doesn't work, it just increase your will to do it.

It's good to have some interesting things to do ... but still i think, there's NO way to stop it.

SO JACK OFF :p cause is natural :D plus is fun
 

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Well right now I have a bet going with at TON of people in my school. It's a catholic school and ash wednesday wasn't long ago, so we started then and whoever lasts the longest wins. That works well if you don't like to loose at anything (me) ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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