Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Any Frickin Ways to Stop Jackin Off!!!

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Grey Fox

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just try and ween yourself off it like smokers do with nicotene patches. start off by not jacking tonight and then if you really feel like it jack tomorrow, then wait 2 days and if you really need it do it the next day, then wait 3 days etc.

It's worked for me, oh and also reward yourself with your favourite food or whatever when you are successful with your willpower and if you at any stage give in, punish yourself by giving some money you were saving up to charity or something. You get the idea :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Drumstick

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When do you usually jerk? Find a new way to use that time and commit to it. For example, I try to keep control of my jerking. I usually take a few days off because your balls feel better, you get better erections, and it feels better when you finally do. I generally jerk before I go to sleep, so I've replaced that timeslot with listening to music in my room with the lights off. It works, because when the album finishes I'm usually quite tired and fall asleep anyway, and I certainly don't feel like getting up.

Getting laid works too, I hear.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I get laid basicly everday with my gf and I still jack off... Like other people said just cut down on it and find things to do to keep you busy.
 

Bonafide

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Lol - lower your testosterone level. If thats possible... cuz if u do it so much and ur always so horny... gosh I dunno thats fvcked up.
 

duffman360

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i remember i used to be addicted to it when i was 12 and 13 but when i turned 14 it stopped calling my attention so i started to build my collection of songs in my itunes and go out more
 

Stacks Of Terror

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Just stop. Its that simple. When you get hard ignore it. Go take a piss. Don't touch it. When you feel the need to jack off go do something else. Don't stay up to all times of night either. Idle time will kill you. Get a large social life going.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Silverant

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It's a matter of pride. You don't need to beat your meat. lol. I had a competition with my friends once and I went for 50 days. Lol walking through the mall on a hot summer day was the worst thing ever after a few weeks.
 

Crazy Asian

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just keep busy.
don't have time to wander and be bored.
 

eaglez1177

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Silverant said:
It's a matter of pride. You don't need to beat your meat. lol. I had a competition with my friends once and I went for 50 days. Lol walking through the mall on a hot summer day was the worst thing ever after a few weeks.
50 days? lol damn that sucks
 

DJ_Matthew

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Silverant said:
It's a matter of pride. You don't need to beat your meat. lol. I had a competition with my friends once and I went for 50 days. Lol walking through the mall on a hot summer day was the worst thing ever after a few weeks.
Damn that's a good idea...
 

aifia

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Silverant said:
It's a matter of pride. You don't need to beat your meat. lol. I had a competition with my friends once and I went for 50 days. Lol walking through the mall on a hot summer day was the worst thing ever after a few weeks.

how would you know if someone cheats... did you guys check each other everyday? haha jk
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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War Against Betaism

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I get laid basicly everday with my gf and I still jack off... Like other people said just cut down on it and find things to do to keep you busy.
You serious? That's strange, you're the first person I know that jacks off everyday yet still gets laid everyday.
 

naes420

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Dont stop, its natural and healthy, and for one, its what every man does, all of these guys LIE when they say they don't do it. Statistics say 95% of males do it, at least a few times a week, and thats probably an understatement.
 

War Against Betaism

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naes420 said:
Dont stop, its natural and healthy, and for one, its what every man does, all of these guys LIE when they say they don't do it. Statistics say 95% of males do it, at least a few times a week, and thats probably an understatement.
That's a lie, 100% of all males jack off!
 

BMX

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As a joke, I told my bestfriend I would do a 40 days and 40 nights challenge. It worked and I went 41 days/nights w/o jerking it. Now I find that I don't do it nearly as much as I did b4 the experiment. I started it by going away for a little over a week and spending time with other family. It does help to go out a bunch and garner a bigger social life :yes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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