"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Any Frickin Ways to Stop Jackin Off!!!

Silverant

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aifia said:
how would you know if someone cheats... did you guys check each other everyday? haha jk

K don't tell but I cheated like 2 weeks in. Still, it was hard (lol...hard) and I'm sure they cheated too at least once
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There's nothing wrong with doing it every now and again (about twice a week), but it's just if you do it all the time (like I used to) it can be considered laziness... most of the time they're rubbish anyway. Cutting down on it is very possible, but giving up completely is much harder.
 

comic_relief

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Here is a way to stop.

Get a fvcken life. If you are out in public or with friends, I don't think that you would whip it out and jerk off.

Also, getting a girlfriend helps with it.

I remember when I used to jerk it three times a day before I found sosuave, but now it might be once every five days.

comic_relief
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Supremo

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Yeah bro why do you wanna stop?

Crankin your soulja boy is a GOOD thing.

Relieves stress and feels great.
 

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macking

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There's NO WAY to stop it ... the most "dangerous" way to stop it is when you wake up in the morning and say to yourself " I'm not gonna jack off today". That doesn't work, it just increase your will to do it.

It's good to have some interesting things to do ... but still i think, there's NO way to stop it.

SO JACK OFF :p cause is natural :D plus is fun
 

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Well right now I have a bet going with at TON of people in my school. It's a catholic school and ash wednesday wasn't long ago, so we started then and whoever lasts the longest wins. That works well if you don't like to loose at anything (me) ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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