"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Any Frickin Ways to Stop Jackin Off!!!

Silverant

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aifia said:
how would you know if someone cheats... did you guys check each other everyday? haha jk

K don't tell but I cheated like 2 weeks in. Still, it was hard (lol...hard) and I'm sure they cheated too at least once
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There's nothing wrong with doing it every now and again (about twice a week), but it's just if you do it all the time (like I used to) it can be considered laziness... most of the time they're rubbish anyway. Cutting down on it is very possible, but giving up completely is much harder.
 

comic_relief

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Here is a way to stop.

Get a fvcken life. If you are out in public or with friends, I don't think that you would whip it out and jerk off.

Also, getting a girlfriend helps with it.

I remember when I used to jerk it three times a day before I found sosuave, but now it might be once every five days.

comic_relief
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Supremo

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Yeah bro why do you wanna stop?

Crankin your soulja boy is a GOOD thing.

Relieves stress and feels great.
 

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macking

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There's NO WAY to stop it ... the most "dangerous" way to stop it is when you wake up in the morning and say to yourself " I'm not gonna jack off today". That doesn't work, it just increase your will to do it.

It's good to have some interesting things to do ... but still i think, there's NO way to stop it.

SO JACK OFF :p cause is natural :D plus is fun
 

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Well right now I have a bet going with at TON of people in my school. It's a catholic school and ash wednesday wasn't long ago, so we started then and whoever lasts the longest wins. That works well if you don't like to loose at anything (me) ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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