Ringleader41
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Asia isn't a country. HA HA. You're not smarter than a 4th grader. :moon:moneyisking said:lol any good countries for Asians then other than Asia?
you should make a thread about it and I will share my answersmoneyisking said:lol any good countries for Asians then other than Asia?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
quit spamming a thread meant for black men by asking about asian men on it, have you lost your mind or what?moneyisking said:the sad thing is... I am an Asian... with a bachelor in science in 3 months lol. I meant to say Asian countries not Asia, but to type few extra words there, AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FO THAT
Is that code for Antarctica? I hear they have aliens down there, and there's a "war" over territories / resources between various countries. BETTER LUCK ELSEWHERE. :cheer:moneyisking said:@jack: calm down if someone will answer this man's question, he will answer it. plus the most plausible answer to this type of question is "it doesn't matter, if you're a confident man, you'll get pvssy in Penguin islands"
ya lets pretend an indian guy has an equal chance of getting laid in australia as he does in the USmoneyisking said:@jack: calm down if someone will answer this man's question, he will answer it. plus the most plausible answer to this type of question is "it doesn't matter, if you're a confident man, you'll get pvssy in Penguin islands"
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
not the case in chapel hill, NC or in other college towns lolzinc4 said:from what i have seen black guys have it easy if they hit up the nightclubs whereever they are...they just have to stand around and then at the end of the night the hottest sluttiest looking chicks will gravitate toward them...expecially on university campus night clubs....they have it made there...here in Asia...same thing...they are pretty much guranteed in the night clubs...and it's usually the hottest looking chicks as well...i would sasy black guys have it easier everyhwere because so many hot dumb bimbos are influenced by the gangster rap media image and they all want that bad boy...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.