Ringleader41
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Asia isn't a country. HA HA. You're not smarter than a 4th grader. :moon:moneyisking said:lol any good countries for Asians then other than Asia?
you should make a thread about it and I will share my answersmoneyisking said:lol any good countries for Asians then other than Asia?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
quit spamming a thread meant for black men by asking about asian men on it, have you lost your mind or what?moneyisking said:the sad thing is... I am an Asian... with a bachelor in science in 3 months lol. I meant to say Asian countries not Asia, but to type few extra words there, AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FO THAT
Is that code for Antarctica? I hear they have aliens down there, and there's a "war" over territories / resources between various countries. BETTER LUCK ELSEWHERE. :cheer:moneyisking said:@jack: calm down if someone will answer this man's question, he will answer it. plus the most plausible answer to this type of question is "it doesn't matter, if you're a confident man, you'll get pvssy in Penguin islands"
ya lets pretend an indian guy has an equal chance of getting laid in australia as he does in the USmoneyisking said:@jack: calm down if someone will answer this man's question, he will answer it. plus the most plausible answer to this type of question is "it doesn't matter, if you're a confident man, you'll get pvssy in Penguin islands"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
not the case in chapel hill, NC or in other college towns lolzinc4 said:from what i have seen black guys have it easy if they hit up the nightclubs whereever they are...they just have to stand around and then at the end of the night the hottest sluttiest looking chicks will gravitate toward them...expecially on university campus night clubs....they have it made there...here in Asia...same thing...they are pretty much guranteed in the night clubs...and it's usually the hottest looking chicks as well...i would sasy black guys have it easier everyhwere because so many hot dumb bimbos are influenced by the gangster rap media image and they all want that bad boy...
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.