Ringleader41
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Asia isn't a country. HA HA. You're not smarter than a 4th grader. :moon:moneyisking said:lol any good countries for Asians then other than Asia?
you should make a thread about it and I will share my answersmoneyisking said:lol any good countries for Asians then other than Asia?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
quit spamming a thread meant for black men by asking about asian men on it, have you lost your mind or what?moneyisking said:the sad thing is... I am an Asian... with a bachelor in science in 3 months lol. I meant to say Asian countries not Asia, but to type few extra words there, AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FO THAT
Is that code for Antarctica? I hear they have aliens down there, and there's a "war" over territories / resources between various countries. BETTER LUCK ELSEWHERE. :cheer:moneyisking said:@jack: calm down if someone will answer this man's question, he will answer it. plus the most plausible answer to this type of question is "it doesn't matter, if you're a confident man, you'll get pvssy in Penguin islands"
ya lets pretend an indian guy has an equal chance of getting laid in australia as he does in the USmoneyisking said:@jack: calm down if someone will answer this man's question, he will answer it. plus the most plausible answer to this type of question is "it doesn't matter, if you're a confident man, you'll get pvssy in Penguin islands"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
not the case in chapel hill, NC or in other college towns lolzinc4 said:from what i have seen black guys have it easy if they hit up the nightclubs whereever they are...they just have to stand around and then at the end of the night the hottest sluttiest looking chicks will gravitate toward them...expecially on university campus night clubs....they have it made there...here in Asia...same thing...they are pretty much guranteed in the night clubs...and it's usually the hottest looking chicks as well...i would sasy black guys have it easier everyhwere because so many hot dumb bimbos are influenced by the gangster rap media image and they all want that bad boy...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.