Ringleader41
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Asia isn't a country. HA HA. You're not smarter than a 4th grader. :moon:moneyisking said:lol any good countries for Asians then other than Asia?
you should make a thread about it and I will share my answersmoneyisking said:lol any good countries for Asians then other than Asia?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
quit spamming a thread meant for black men by asking about asian men on it, have you lost your mind or what?moneyisking said:the sad thing is... I am an Asian... with a bachelor in science in 3 months lol. I meant to say Asian countries not Asia, but to type few extra words there, AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FO THAT
Is that code for Antarctica? I hear they have aliens down there, and there's a "war" over territories / resources between various countries. BETTER LUCK ELSEWHERE. :cheer:moneyisking said:@jack: calm down if someone will answer this man's question, he will answer it. plus the most plausible answer to this type of question is "it doesn't matter, if you're a confident man, you'll get pvssy in Penguin islands"
ya lets pretend an indian guy has an equal chance of getting laid in australia as he does in the USmoneyisking said:@jack: calm down if someone will answer this man's question, he will answer it. plus the most plausible answer to this type of question is "it doesn't matter, if you're a confident man, you'll get pvssy in Penguin islands"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
not the case in chapel hill, NC or in other college towns lolzinc4 said:from what i have seen black guys have it easy if they hit up the nightclubs whereever they are...they just have to stand around and then at the end of the night the hottest sluttiest looking chicks will gravitate toward them...expecially on university campus night clubs....they have it made there...here in Asia...same thing...they are pretty much guranteed in the night clubs...and it's usually the hottest looking chicks as well...i would sasy black guys have it easier everyhwere because so many hot dumb bimbos are influenced by the gangster rap media image and they all want that bad boy...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.