Ringleader41
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Any black brahs been abroad, what countries are good for minorities
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
apparently british and german girls love black men
not sure but I have heard mixed things about Scandinavian girls, on one hand I heard they love anything exotic but on the other, many people have told me they like other minorities like latinos over black men, regardless, it is decent for a black man
eastern europe isn't a good idea, especially not ukraine, but you can ask around more if you like
asian and latin american countries seem to be obsessed with whiteness
not sure but I have heard mixed things about Scandinavian girls, on one hand I heard they love anything exotic but on the other, many people have told me they like other minorities like latinos over black men, regardless, it is decent for a black man
eastern europe isn't a good idea, especially not ukraine, but you can ask around more if you like
asian and latin american countries seem to be obsessed with whiteness
Ringleader41
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Yeah, any country that was a colony is bad and ive heard bad things about asian countries.
Purefilth
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I love the apple poptarts, but I'm not so keen on the chocolate ones.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
moneyisking
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lol any good countries for Asians then other than Asia?
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Besides SS are there any other sites that are easy to troll from an Asian or Indian Israeli of African descents point of view?
moneyisking
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the sad thing is... I am an Asian... with a bachelor in science in 3 months lol. I meant to say Asian countries not Asia, but to type few extra words there, AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FO THAT
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
moneyisking
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@jack: calm down if someone will answer this man's question, he will answer it. plus the most plausible answer to this type of question is "it doesn't matter, if you're a confident man, you'll get pvssy in Penguin islands"
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
moneyisking
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idk man I know an Indian guy at my gym who I saw getting a number from hot blonde babe; this happened in Texas, one of most unforgiving states for Asians when it comes to sex; I also get lots of girls that open up and get receptive even though I am not white because I work out hard, going for my goal and walking a straight path. So I believe that hard work on mind and body can bring success in women and life, and you can't change your race, so why not work with it? There ain't no time to complain mane
from what i have seen black guys have it easy if they hit up the nightclubs whereever they are...they just have to stand around and then at the end of the night the hottest sluttiest looking chicks will gravitate toward them...expecially on university campus night clubs....they have it made there...here in Asia...same thing...they are pretty much guranteed in the night clubs...and it's usually the hottest looking chicks as well...i would sasy black guys have it easier everyhwere because so many hot dumb bimbos are influenced by the gangster rap media image and they all want that bad boy...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.