This isn't about approach anxiety. This is just about worrying and anxiety. Sometimes my heart races all day long. If it does slow down I realize it and then it starts right back up again. I have a girlfriend and if I have thoughts of other women I feel extremely guilty and then I feel stressed and worried all the time. Its like I can't push away thoughts that causes anxiety I will always think of something to worry about. Its so stressful and taxing what can I do?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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i suffer from the same thing and have been for about 2 years..u may need to get some medication and relize that u have to stop worrying..worrying is causing your problems (obviously right lol) the best thing for you to do is to excercise,practice observing what you are saying to yourself mentally,change your negative self talk to positive self talk, and when you are experiencing a panic attack jus let your body do your thing,you cannot die from it no matter how uncomfortable it feels, u will not have a heart attack or stop breathing theres are psychological reasons your body is reacting the way it does physically but no one has ever died from a panic attack, eliminate caffeine from your diet, and remeber when u feel worried and your body starts having its reactions remain completly passive, and remeber that the symptoms you are feeling i.e. racing heart, is caused by your fight or flight response and is purely adrenaline and it will peak then disaapear..i hope this helps you
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Thanks for the responses. To add to the worrying I've been told stress takes 15 years off your life and it makes you fat so I worry about worrying too much. Sometimes my heart will race and I don't even know why. Sometimes it seems like sleep is my only escape. Its ruining my relationship with my girlfriend because if I find someone attractive or have a thought about someone else I can't be free until I tell her it seems like which makes her sad and insecure.
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
Smoke a little bit of weed.
A little bit, not a bowl.
A little bit, not a bowl.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
sometimes weed gives me anxiety, but I also get it when I stop smoking.
jesusrules
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dude i have anxiety as well. the pills i got didnt do crap though. im not trying to be negative but they made me worse, i would feel worried about the dumbest things and it sucked.
but yeah maybe if its really bad see a counsoler (sp)
good luck man.
but yeah maybe if its really bad see a counsoler (sp)
good luck man.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.