All natural my ass! Straight bull! I'd bet thousands of dollars he juiced up.
http://www.bnatural.com/gallery/anthony.htm
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
doctoroxygen said:The striation in his pecs and the roundness of his deltoids indicate that he is using steroids.
The saddest thing about this is that steroid use is so prevalent in our culture, particularly amongst cover models and celebrities, that people don't even recognize it when they see it. Steroid users don't have to be huge, the shape of their muscles is just as good of a tell. Look for particularly round shoulders and massive striation in muscles, neither of which are attainable in all but a tiny fraction naturally.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I didn't say that. MASSIVE striation is only possible through steroids, and natural muscular shoulders are elongated, not round.Skilla_Staz said:First off, you're saying pec stiation and shoulder development is 100% steroids. I know kids who have rounded shoulders and pec striations...
Muscle is muscle. Roids just helps you get muscle quicker, it doesn't change the way the layout of the muscle. The pec striations and rounded shoulders don't mean a thing when trying to determine if he uses roids. The only thing that will is a blood test or whatever they do.
then you don't have ANY experience or credibility...thats ALL natural no doubt about it...he wouldn't look that much different if he was 160 either.from my own personal experiences and several friends' experiences, I'm positive he's not natural
doctoroxygen said:I didn't say that. MASSIVE striation is only possible through steroids, and natural muscular shoulders are elongated, not round.
Steroids make it possible to have more muscle than your body could otherwise support based on your body fat level. Naturally, a lot of muscle requires a lot of fat. Steroids make it so you can have a lot of muscle without the fat. That means denser, rounder shoulders and biceps, as well as the rest of the upper body. For more information on this, read "The Adonis Complex". It's written by three physicians with extensive research experience involving male body dysmorphic disorder and steroids. They developed a "Fat-Free Body Mass Index" that I don't have time to get into right now, but look it up.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You mean you can't look like this without steroids?doctoroxygen said:Just lifting weights evidently doesn't give you an idea of how the human muscular system works. The fat is NECESSARY to support the muscle, so you can't have the muscle without it, meaning you can't cut the fat off and keep the muscles looking like his do without using steroids. I'd suggest you read some human physiology literature, particularly "The Adonis Complex", as I said earlier. Your opinions are unsupported by medical research (information gleaned from personal experience on bodybuilding boards doesn't count for much).
NOTE: Of course I'm not saying that you can't have muscle without fat, just that muscle requires a ratio of fat to support its energy demands (I forget the ratio), and the muscles that Anthony Ellis has are too big to be supported by his body fat level. Actual natural bodybuilders don't really look anything like the example of natural bodybuilding you posted.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.