All natural my ass! Straight bull! I'd bet thousands of dollars he juiced up.
http://www.bnatural.com/gallery/anthony.htm
http://www.bnatural.com/gallery/anthony.htm
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
doctoroxygen said:The striation in his pecs and the roundness of his deltoids indicate that he is using steroids.
The saddest thing about this is that steroid use is so prevalent in our culture, particularly amongst cover models and celebrities, that people don't even recognize it when they see it. Steroid users don't have to be huge, the shape of their muscles is just as good of a tell. Look for particularly round shoulders and massive striation in muscles, neither of which are attainable in all but a tiny fraction naturally.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I didn't say that. MASSIVE striation is only possible through steroids, and natural muscular shoulders are elongated, not round.Skilla_Staz said:First off, you're saying pec stiation and shoulder development is 100% steroids. I know kids who have rounded shoulders and pec striations...
Muscle is muscle. Roids just helps you get muscle quicker, it doesn't change the way the layout of the muscle. The pec striations and rounded shoulders don't mean a thing when trying to determine if he uses roids. The only thing that will is a blood test or whatever they do.
then you don't have ANY experience or credibility...thats ALL natural no doubt about it...he wouldn't look that much different if he was 160 either.from my own personal experiences and several friends' experiences, I'm positive he's not natural
doctoroxygen said:I didn't say that. MASSIVE striation is only possible through steroids, and natural muscular shoulders are elongated, not round.
Steroids make it possible to have more muscle than your body could otherwise support based on your body fat level. Naturally, a lot of muscle requires a lot of fat. Steroids make it so you can have a lot of muscle without the fat. That means denser, rounder shoulders and biceps, as well as the rest of the upper body. For more information on this, read "The Adonis Complex". It's written by three physicians with extensive research experience involving male body dysmorphic disorder and steroids. They developed a "Fat-Free Body Mass Index" that I don't have time to get into right now, but look it up.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You mean you can't look like this without steroids?doctoroxygen said:Just lifting weights evidently doesn't give you an idea of how the human muscular system works. The fat is NECESSARY to support the muscle, so you can't have the muscle without it, meaning you can't cut the fat off and keep the muscles looking like his do without using steroids. I'd suggest you read some human physiology literature, particularly "The Adonis Complex", as I said earlier. Your opinions are unsupported by medical research (information gleaned from personal experience on bodybuilding boards doesn't count for much).
NOTE: Of course I'm not saying that you can't have muscle without fat, just that muscle requires a ratio of fat to support its energy demands (I forget the ratio), and the muscles that Anthony Ellis has are too big to be supported by his body fat level. Actual natural bodybuilders don't really look anything like the example of natural bodybuilding you posted.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.