"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't enjoy anal, I'd rather do her up the pvssy. I got a negative comment for suggesting this. So I'd just like to get a general opinion.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Re: Re: Anal

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Your supposed to do HER in the ass silly.
Err, thats what I meant...I don't enjoy it. I think its inferior to pvssy.
 

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Re: Re: Anal

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Your supposed to do HER in the ass silly.

LMFAO.

Eat shit, boob man...you made me spit out perfectly good beer.


On the carpet, too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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On a serious note, though, I tried it a couple times with one ex, it was okay.

It ended up being more of an exercise in frustration than anything else. Slow process the first time, I guess.
 

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Never tried anal sex but wouldn't, I heard your penis will be full of crap!
 

Adone

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Originally posted by Warlord
Never tried anal sex but wouldn't, I heard your penis will be full of crap!

Bullshìt, I've been doing it for a year without condom (she was a virgin) and it never happened.
 

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Anal tottally rocks! Its a shame not enough girls would let you do it!

For me, it is more the thought of doing it that feels good rather than the physical sensation you get from it.

I just feel that when a girl lets you do that, she is pretty much giving you that little bit more that she has not given other guys!

Ego boost really.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Holy ****... Stay away from the pooper, is what dad always said.

Seriously though... gross. I read anal sex gives the recipient hemorrhoids!
 

Warlord

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Originally posted by Adone
Bullshìt, I've been doing it for a year without condom (she was a virgin) and it never happened.
Reality check, did you know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? Turn off the computer.
 

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Originally posted by Warlord
Reality check, did you know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? Turn off the computer.
I don't know what "reality check" means (I'm not English).

Why shouldn't I know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? I can't really understand what you're trying to say and the way it connects to my opinion on anal sex.
 

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Originally posted by Adone
I don't know what "reality check" means (I'm not English).

Why shouldn't I know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? I can't really understand what you're trying to say and the way it connects to my opinion on anal sex.
I think he replied to the wrong post or something...
 

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I get saddistic pleasure out of knowing I'm causing her pain that she enjoys. That's what I like about anal, more so than the physical side of it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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