"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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aftershock

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I don't enjoy anal, I'd rather do her up the pvssy. I got a negative comment for suggesting this. So I'd just like to get a general opinion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: Anal

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Your supposed to do HER in the ass silly.
Err, thats what I meant...I don't enjoy it. I think its inferior to pvssy.
 

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Re: Re: Anal

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Your supposed to do HER in the ass silly.

LMFAO.

Eat shit, boob man...you made me spit out perfectly good beer.


On the carpet, too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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On a serious note, though, I tried it a couple times with one ex, it was okay.

It ended up being more of an exercise in frustration than anything else. Slow process the first time, I guess.
 

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Never tried anal sex but wouldn't, I heard your penis will be full of crap!
 

Adone

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Originally posted by Warlord
Never tried anal sex but wouldn't, I heard your penis will be full of crap!

Bullshìt, I've been doing it for a year without condom (she was a virgin) and it never happened.
 

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Anal tottally rocks! Its a shame not enough girls would let you do it!

For me, it is more the thought of doing it that feels good rather than the physical sensation you get from it.

I just feel that when a girl lets you do that, she is pretty much giving you that little bit more that she has not given other guys!

Ego boost really.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Holy ****... Stay away from the pooper, is what dad always said.

Seriously though... gross. I read anal sex gives the recipient hemorrhoids!
 

Warlord

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Originally posted by Adone
Bullshìt, I've been doing it for a year without condom (she was a virgin) and it never happened.
Reality check, did you know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? Turn off the computer.
 

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Originally posted by Warlord
Reality check, did you know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? Turn off the computer.
I don't know what "reality check" means (I'm not English).

Why shouldn't I know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? I can't really understand what you're trying to say and the way it connects to my opinion on anal sex.
 

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Originally posted by Adone
I don't know what "reality check" means (I'm not English).

Why shouldn't I know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? I can't really understand what you're trying to say and the way it connects to my opinion on anal sex.
I think he replied to the wrong post or something...
 

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I get saddistic pleasure out of knowing I'm causing her pain that she enjoys. That's what I like about anal, more so than the physical side of it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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