"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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aftershock

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I don't enjoy anal, I'd rather do her up the pvssy. I got a negative comment for suggesting this. So I'd just like to get a general opinion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Re: Re: Anal

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Your supposed to do HER in the ass silly.
Err, thats what I meant...I don't enjoy it. I think its inferior to pvssy.
 

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Re: Re: Anal

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Your supposed to do HER in the ass silly.

LMFAO.

Eat shit, boob man...you made me spit out perfectly good beer.


On the carpet, too.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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On a serious note, though, I tried it a couple times with one ex, it was okay.

It ended up being more of an exercise in frustration than anything else. Slow process the first time, I guess.
 

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Never tried anal sex but wouldn't, I heard your penis will be full of crap!
 

Adone

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Originally posted by Warlord
Never tried anal sex but wouldn't, I heard your penis will be full of crap!

Bullshìt, I've been doing it for a year without condom (she was a virgin) and it never happened.
 

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Anal tottally rocks! Its a shame not enough girls would let you do it!

For me, it is more the thought of doing it that feels good rather than the physical sensation you get from it.

I just feel that when a girl lets you do that, she is pretty much giving you that little bit more that she has not given other guys!

Ego boost really.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Holy ****... Stay away from the pooper, is what dad always said.

Seriously though... gross. I read anal sex gives the recipient hemorrhoids!
 

Warlord

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Originally posted by Adone
Bullshìt, I've been doing it for a year without condom (she was a virgin) and it never happened.
Reality check, did you know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? Turn off the computer.
 

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Originally posted by Warlord
Reality check, did you know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? Turn off the computer.
I don't know what "reality check" means (I'm not English).

Why shouldn't I know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? I can't really understand what you're trying to say and the way it connects to my opinion on anal sex.
 

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Originally posted by Adone
I don't know what "reality check" means (I'm not English).

Why shouldn't I know that guys are supposed to ask girls out? I can't really understand what you're trying to say and the way it connects to my opinion on anal sex.
I think he replied to the wrong post or something...
 

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I get saddistic pleasure out of knowing I'm causing her pain that she enjoys. That's what I like about anal, more so than the physical side of it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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