"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anal penile pains

Rainman4707

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I've been getting sharp shooting pains in rectum & penis for about a year now. The pains stop me in my tracks. It's like someone cutting you or sticking a knife up your butt. The pain is at the tip of my penis. Difficult to say how often a year i get the pains. I get more pains in penis than rectum. Rectum area once or twice a month. Penis, not sure how many times. I've worked shifts (mostly nights for 8 years)

My opinion is that i am getting these pains because i work nights & sleep during the day.

Anyway i've booked a doctors appointment.

I'm going to pay closer attention to the problem now. I.e if i get pains after drinking a certain food or drink product.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Billtx49

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Make sure they check your prostate gland thoroughly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rainman4707

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I had my sperm tested about 6 months to a year ago & the results said i had good sperm, does that rule out std??
 

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Bro you have Chlamydia go to the doctor and get a shot, and take some antibiotics, also stop masturbating, masturbating often can have the same effect on your penis as well
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rainman4707

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Update :- I've been to docs, my urine & blood tests came back fine. Doc says to come back & see her in a month.
 

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Consider kidney stones or a mild bladder infection.
 

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Sometimes the stones will disintegrate into "gravel" and irritate not only the urinary tract (and yes, the tip could be affected more), and also the rectal area. Been there.
 
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