"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Anal penile pains

Rainman4707

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I've been getting sharp shooting pains in rectum & penis for about a year now. The pains stop me in my tracks. It's like someone cutting you or sticking a knife up your butt. The pain is at the tip of my penis. Difficult to say how often a year i get the pains. I get more pains in penis than rectum. Rectum area once or twice a month. Penis, not sure how many times. I've worked shifts (mostly nights for 8 years)

My opinion is that i am getting these pains because i work nights & sleep during the day.

Anyway i've booked a doctors appointment.

I'm going to pay closer attention to the problem now. I.e if i get pains after drinking a certain food or drink product.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Make sure they check your prostate gland thoroughly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rainman4707

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I had my sperm tested about 6 months to a year ago & the results said i had good sperm, does that rule out std??
 

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Bro you have Chlamydia go to the doctor and get a shot, and take some antibiotics, also stop masturbating, masturbating often can have the same effect on your penis as well
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Update :- I've been to docs, my urine & blood tests came back fine. Doc says to come back & see her in a month.
 

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Consider kidney stones or a mild bladder infection.
 

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Sometimes the stones will disintegrate into "gravel" and irritate not only the urinary tract (and yes, the tip could be affected more), and also the rectal area. Been there.
 
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