Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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An unexpected twist

Romeo Sariani

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Hello Djs,

The issue at hand:

I asked a girl a week ago for her number, she gave it right away with no problem.

Now I have called her 2-3 times, from my cell phone and another phone and never get an answer, just ringing. (I don't remeber if she got my cell number)

Anyhow, sent a message asking what is up today an didn't receive an answer.

Per se this is nothing peculiar, but this chick I think is attracted to me, always looking etc.

Possible that I was mistaken (also, I really find strange a person who does not answer a phone)

Any ideas on divergent behaviour in women (phone VS in person)?

Romeo Sariani
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Romeo Sariani
Now I have called her 2-3 times, from my cell phone and another phone and never get an answer, just ringing. (I don't remeber if she got my cell number)

Anyhow, sent a message asking what is up today an didn't receive an answer.

Any ideas on divergent behaviour in women?
She's probably busy today because she's getting a restraining order out on your pathetic @ss.
 

Romeo Sariani

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Dude,

if you think calling a girl 2 times in a week is excessive nobody can help you :rolleyes:
 

So pimp its scary

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Romeo,

Let me just say that this happens ALOT... and I mean ALOT.

In my experience, for every 10 numbers that I get from girls, I don't even get in touch with 3-5 of them.

After a while, I just drop the number, or just casually try and call every time I get past the number in my phone book.

After 2-3 weeks though, it gets hard to regain the lost IL.
 

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Ideas on female behavior on phones...

If someone you didn't like called you, you would be least likely to return the voicemail or pick up the phone.

If someone was neutral to you, you'd probably make them wait for a certain amount of time before you return it back. (This is normal if you just met the girl.)

If someone was likeable to you, you'd answer right away or return the call within a good time.

Now according to what you told us, seems like the girl isn't returning your phone calls at all. Throw it away.. NEXT
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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