"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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An unexpected twist

Romeo Sariani

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Hello Djs,

The issue at hand:

I asked a girl a week ago for her number, she gave it right away with no problem.

Now I have called her 2-3 times, from my cell phone and another phone and never get an answer, just ringing. (I don't remeber if she got my cell number)

Anyhow, sent a message asking what is up today an didn't receive an answer.

Per se this is nothing peculiar, but this chick I think is attracted to me, always looking etc.

Possible that I was mistaken (also, I really find strange a person who does not answer a phone)

Any ideas on divergent behaviour in women (phone VS in person)?

Romeo Sariani
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Romeo Sariani
Now I have called her 2-3 times, from my cell phone and another phone and never get an answer, just ringing. (I don't remeber if she got my cell number)

Anyhow, sent a message asking what is up today an didn't receive an answer.

Any ideas on divergent behaviour in women?
She's probably busy today because she's getting a restraining order out on your pathetic @ss.
 

Romeo Sariani

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Dude,

if you think calling a girl 2 times in a week is excessive nobody can help you :rolleyes:
 

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Romeo,

Let me just say that this happens ALOT... and I mean ALOT.

In my experience, for every 10 numbers that I get from girls, I don't even get in touch with 3-5 of them.

After a while, I just drop the number, or just casually try and call every time I get past the number in my phone book.

After 2-3 weeks though, it gets hard to regain the lost IL.
 

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Ideas on female behavior on phones...

If someone you didn't like called you, you would be least likely to return the voicemail or pick up the phone.

If someone was neutral to you, you'd probably make them wait for a certain amount of time before you return it back. (This is normal if you just met the girl.)

If someone was likeable to you, you'd answer right away or return the call within a good time.

Now according to what you told us, seems like the girl isn't returning your phone calls at all. Throw it away.. NEXT
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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