"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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An unexpected twist

Romeo Sariani

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Hello Djs,

The issue at hand:

I asked a girl a week ago for her number, she gave it right away with no problem.

Now I have called her 2-3 times, from my cell phone and another phone and never get an answer, just ringing. (I don't remeber if she got my cell number)

Anyhow, sent a message asking what is up today an didn't receive an answer.

Per se this is nothing peculiar, but this chick I think is attracted to me, always looking etc.

Possible that I was mistaken (also, I really find strange a person who does not answer a phone)

Any ideas on divergent behaviour in women (phone VS in person)?

Romeo Sariani
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Romeo Sariani
Now I have called her 2-3 times, from my cell phone and another phone and never get an answer, just ringing. (I don't remeber if she got my cell number)

Anyhow, sent a message asking what is up today an didn't receive an answer.

Any ideas on divergent behaviour in women?
She's probably busy today because she's getting a restraining order out on your pathetic @ss.
 

Romeo Sariani

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Dude,

if you think calling a girl 2 times in a week is excessive nobody can help you :rolleyes:
 

So pimp its scary

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Romeo,

Let me just say that this happens ALOT... and I mean ALOT.

In my experience, for every 10 numbers that I get from girls, I don't even get in touch with 3-5 of them.

After a while, I just drop the number, or just casually try and call every time I get past the number in my phone book.

After 2-3 weeks though, it gets hard to regain the lost IL.
 

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Ideas on female behavior on phones...

If someone you didn't like called you, you would be least likely to return the voicemail or pick up the phone.

If someone was neutral to you, you'd probably make them wait for a certain amount of time before you return it back. (This is normal if you just met the girl.)

If someone was likeable to you, you'd answer right away or return the call within a good time.

Now according to what you told us, seems like the girl isn't returning your phone calls at all. Throw it away.. NEXT
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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