"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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An unexpected twist

Romeo Sariani

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Hello Djs,

The issue at hand:

I asked a girl a week ago for her number, she gave it right away with no problem.

Now I have called her 2-3 times, from my cell phone and another phone and never get an answer, just ringing. (I don't remeber if she got my cell number)

Anyhow, sent a message asking what is up today an didn't receive an answer.

Per se this is nothing peculiar, but this chick I think is attracted to me, always looking etc.

Possible that I was mistaken (also, I really find strange a person who does not answer a phone)

Any ideas on divergent behaviour in women (phone VS in person)?

Romeo Sariani
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Romeo Sariani
Now I have called her 2-3 times, from my cell phone and another phone and never get an answer, just ringing. (I don't remeber if she got my cell number)

Anyhow, sent a message asking what is up today an didn't receive an answer.

Any ideas on divergent behaviour in women?
She's probably busy today because she's getting a restraining order out on your pathetic @ss.
 

Romeo Sariani

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Dude,

if you think calling a girl 2 times in a week is excessive nobody can help you :rolleyes:
 

So pimp its scary

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Romeo,

Let me just say that this happens ALOT... and I mean ALOT.

In my experience, for every 10 numbers that I get from girls, I don't even get in touch with 3-5 of them.

After a while, I just drop the number, or just casually try and call every time I get past the number in my phone book.

After 2-3 weeks though, it gets hard to regain the lost IL.
 

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Ideas on female behavior on phones...

If someone you didn't like called you, you would be least likely to return the voicemail or pick up the phone.

If someone was neutral to you, you'd probably make them wait for a certain amount of time before you return it back. (This is normal if you just met the girl.)

If someone was likeable to you, you'd answer right away or return the call within a good time.

Now according to what you told us, seems like the girl isn't returning your phone calls at all. Throw it away.. NEXT
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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