"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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An unexpected twist

Romeo Sariani

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Hello Djs,

The issue at hand:

I asked a girl a week ago for her number, she gave it right away with no problem.

Now I have called her 2-3 times, from my cell phone and another phone and never get an answer, just ringing. (I don't remeber if she got my cell number)

Anyhow, sent a message asking what is up today an didn't receive an answer.

Per se this is nothing peculiar, but this chick I think is attracted to me, always looking etc.

Possible that I was mistaken (also, I really find strange a person who does not answer a phone)

Any ideas on divergent behaviour in women (phone VS in person)?

Romeo Sariani
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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baracus

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Originally posted by Romeo Sariani
Now I have called her 2-3 times, from my cell phone and another phone and never get an answer, just ringing. (I don't remeber if she got my cell number)

Anyhow, sent a message asking what is up today an didn't receive an answer.

Any ideas on divergent behaviour in women?
She's probably busy today because she's getting a restraining order out on your pathetic @ss.
 

Romeo Sariani

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Dude,

if you think calling a girl 2 times in a week is excessive nobody can help you :rolleyes:
 

So pimp its scary

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Romeo,

Let me just say that this happens ALOT... and I mean ALOT.

In my experience, for every 10 numbers that I get from girls, I don't even get in touch with 3-5 of them.

After a while, I just drop the number, or just casually try and call every time I get past the number in my phone book.

After 2-3 weeks though, it gets hard to regain the lost IL.
 

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Ideas on female behavior on phones...

If someone you didn't like called you, you would be least likely to return the voicemail or pick up the phone.

If someone was neutral to you, you'd probably make them wait for a certain amount of time before you return it back. (This is normal if you just met the girl.)

If someone was likeable to you, you'd answer right away or return the call within a good time.

Now according to what you told us, seems like the girl isn't returning your phone calls at all. Throw it away.. NEXT
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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