Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Think what? To Think positively? Or did you mean that man was prepared? Not sure about this story or what it concludes.redzone2t said:It wasn't raining for a long time at a village
So, the village people decided to have a prayer for rain,
At the time of the prayer, out of everyone in the village, only one person came with an UMBRELLA.
That is CONFIDENCE.
This just made me think.
That person was an optimist, and the only true believer. It's always raining women.ZenGodMod said:Think what? To Think positively? Or did you mean that man was prepared? Not sure about this story or what it concludes.
However it reminds me of a Buddhist story. During a terrible storm the crew of vessel believing they where about to die, all got onto their knees and prayed that they would bare the storm.
While an enlightened man on the vessel, smeared animal fat all over his body and made a small raft, thus he survived the storm and the cold ocean. while the rest slowly fell to the depths of the ocean.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
i am in a mess,i know all the stuf that i should say in approaching,but i could never bring myself to do it.redzone2t said:It wasn't raining for a long time at a village
So, the village people decided to have a prayer for rain,
At the time of the prayer, out of everyone in the village, only one person came with an UMBRELLA.
That is CONFIDENCE.
This just made me think.
I know exactly how you feel, im there now.i am in a mess,i know all the stuf that i should say in approaching,but i could never bring myself to do it.
i dont know,i just get terrified and i freeze up.
lmaoMistic said:The umbrella you need is a condom.