She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i think you have measured wrong there mate.Originally posted by simon
After 4 sessions in the gym, according to my scales I have put on 6lbs. Not sure if that's even possible. I think I may have measured my initial weight incorrectly.
I weighed myself after a huge **** before breakfast :cheer:Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Ehhh.. you can put that kind of muscular weight on in a couple of weeks or even less (with diet and training in check), but remember some of it will be water weight thanks to increased food intake (carbs retain water, you should be drinking a couple of gallons of water a day to help with protein absorption); weigh yourself first thing in the morning after going to the toilet, that's your real weight.
In any case though, congratulations, and keep it up bro!
I've seen people put on like 20lbs in a month .. that's 5lbs a week, though admittedly a little was fat (not much though).
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I weighed myself after a huge **** before breakfast :cheer:Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Ehhh.. you can put that kind of muscular weight on in a couple of weeks or even less (with diet and training in check), but remember some of it will be water weight thanks to increased food intake (carbs retain water, you should be drinking a couple of gallons of water a day to help with protein absorption); weigh yourself first thing in the morning after going to the toilet, that's your real weight.
In any case though, congratulations, and keep it up bro!
I've seen people put on like 20lbs in a month .. that's 5lbs a week, though admittedly a little was fat (not much though).
ha, no problem, that sounded well sarcastic but wasn't meaning to be.Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Um.. sorry mate, didn't mean to undermine your intelligence or anything.
I'm just saying that weight fluctuates quite crazily, but it's possible to put on large amounts of muscle in a short time..
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
yeah..Originally posted by Warboss Alex
I'm still learning too mate.
I bet even old Arnie is ..
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
2. It's nutritional knowledge and an opinion on bulking and cutting; you'll find plenty of trainers out there with similar opinions. It's worded similarly because his post inspired me.(References: DC training)
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.