"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lamath
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Get new plate with same name, problem solved.
But seriously dont give it to her.
Im sure you will hear from her before Christmas, she lost the right to the gift.
Floydispink01
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Its a painting!
lamath
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If thats her logic dont touch her with a 100 feet pole
Atom Smasher
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I was just going to type precisely this but sazc did my work for me. This is exactly what happened. She's probably extremely insecure and decided to bail before you would have a chance to reject her.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
flowtheory
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Macaroni Painting spelling her name?
That’s a pretty solid theory given all the circumstances here actually.
When women are drunk, they’ll tell the truth about what they’re feeling.. Maybe she got scared! Like I originally said too. Because this doesn’t make much sense.
Did you have a talk with her as to why?
Floydispink01
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Its a painting of a famous musician i did.
We didnt have a talk really. She just come out and said it.
She asked if i loved her when she was drunk but i choose not to answer the question so that could be a factor also. Who knows.
That would be playa lol good one
Ranger
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You saw that. Lol. Some things are so simple.
Atom Smasher
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We know. And now you know too, if you have ears to hear.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Don’t buy into all that stuff. Sacz has her opinion but look at it closer. It’s all on you now. LMAO
When has a woman never done this?
I wouldn’t tell a drunk woman I loved her either. Love has absolutely nothing to do with this.
Seperate yourself from all that garbage. You didn’t say I love you...? LMAO
Women are not tender flowers. They are well equipped human beings with a lot of savvy.
flowtheory
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Actually!
I have PROOF! I forgot about this until this thread.
My girlfriend of two years. She was the same. Super sweet, trusting, great, blah blah, honest.
One night she got sloshed. I don’t drink much and was totally okay. She drunkenly said ‘I love you and have for awhile now’. And I didn’t say it back because she was drunk. When I told her that, she criiiiieeed. She lost it, she had put her shoes on and was ready to walk out the door because she thought I wasn’t in to her. I eventually caved and just said ‘I love you too’ because I did, but I did it on her terms which in was unbeknownst to me in my blue pilled days...
Anyways.
You didn’t say it back, she feels like an idiot, she may have lower self esteem, and now when she broke up with you, you haven’t even had a talk. You’re playong it cool which further solidified her self conscious thoughts!
Have a talk. Figure out wtf happened!
lamath
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Dont believe that explanation either.
But if by any chance that what happened he dodge a bullet.
Thats full crazy/insecure
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You have this extremely FLAWED way of interpreting things....
Oh, okay, got it, women are highly emotional but not tender flowers? Wut?
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There’s some skills to handle the “I love you.”
That’s different thread material.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I never said they were highly emotional. Not once in my whole life. Where did you get that? Actually those emotions make her a woman. I like most of it. If it wasn’t for those emotions, she would just be a dude.
Psychologically, they are waaaay tougher than men. That is a scientific fact. Even Rollo talked in length on this. Men get to their limit and crack.
I like flowers on their panties though. That little bow at the top? Yeah that’s hot too. No. She’s not a delicate flower. Lol
lamath
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Actualy would be great thread material
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Everyone on this board talks about how women are highly emotional and how they act on their emotions
So your stance is that all women are straight manipulators?
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It actually would be a great thread. Maybe the more experienced could start it and contribute.
lamath
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imo an insta me too is not genuine
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.