"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Am i too ugly to pull 'hot' chicks?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You're not ugly. But my opinion nor anyone's opinion on this board should matter to you.
All that matters is that you accept who you are, and everything that comes with being "YOU". Once you have accepted that, you don't need people's validation and approval. You can start being a man and forget about how you qualify to other people
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
He's always smiling and having fun or making fun of someone . All the time .
And when it comes to girls , he's the sh1t . Maybe later ill post some pic's of him ( if he agrees ) and you can see how CAN YOU BE if you had more confidence .
Maybe you should change your style ?
EDIT:wooohooo this is my 1000 post :cheer: :cheer: :rockon:
I have been having great fun here
. Love ya guys (no homo) :flowers: :flowers:"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Not as tight-lipped. I think you're going for "cool." And you can't go for "cool", you just are cool or you're not. And if you're not, embrace not being cool and be the best yourself. There's alot of freedom in not being cool by the way.=Nathan= said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewAlbums2&friendID=268714595&view=true
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Senior Don Juan
Linngggerr Longer!mtlwlu said:
I miss the bad old days where you could just post to "am I hot or not" to get some brutally instant feedback on how you looked.
Corey
Don Juan
but i must say
i strongly dislike that hoodie, maybe beucase where i come from only asian teenagers wear it. Imo it doesn't suit you and your facial expression
go for a clothing style more sophistated and casual
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.