"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Am i too ugly to pull 'hot' chicks?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You're not ugly. But my opinion nor anyone's opinion on this board should matter to you.
All that matters is that you accept who you are, and everything that comes with being "YOU". Once you have accepted that, you don't need people's validation and approval. You can start being a man and forget about how you qualify to other people
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
He's always smiling and having fun or making fun of someone . All the time .
And when it comes to girls , he's the sh1t . Maybe later ill post some pic's of him ( if he agrees ) and you can see how CAN YOU BE if you had more confidence .
Maybe you should change your style ?
EDIT:wooohooo this is my 1000 post :cheer: :cheer: :rockon:
I have been having great fun here
. Love ya guys (no homo) :flowers: :flowers:"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Not as tight-lipped. I think you're going for "cool." And you can't go for "cool", you just are cool or you're not. And if you're not, embrace not being cool and be the best yourself. There's alot of freedom in not being cool by the way.=Nathan= said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewAlbums2&friendID=268714595&view=true
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Senior Don Juan
Linngggerr Longer!mtlwlu said:
I miss the bad old days where you could just post to "am I hot or not" to get some brutally instant feedback on how you looked.
Corey
Don Juan
but i must say
i strongly dislike that hoodie, maybe beucase where i come from only asian teenagers wear it. Imo it doesn't suit you and your facial expression
go for a clothing style more sophistated and casual
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.