"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Am i too ugly to pull 'hot' chicks?
- Thread starter =Nathan=
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You're not ugly. But my opinion nor anyone's opinion on this board should matter to you.
All that matters is that you accept who you are, and everything that comes with being "YOU". Once you have accepted that, you don't need people's validation and approval. You can start being a man and forget about how you qualify to other people
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
He's always smiling and having fun or making fun of someone . All the time .
And when it comes to girls , he's the sh1t . Maybe later ill post some pic's of him ( if he agrees ) and you can see how CAN YOU BE if you had more confidence .
Maybe you should change your style ?
EDIT:wooohooo this is my 1000 post :cheer: :cheer: :rockon:
I have been having great fun here
. Love ya guys (no homo) :flowers: :flowers:"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Not as tight-lipped. I think you're going for "cool." And you can't go for "cool", you just are cool or you're not. And if you're not, embrace not being cool and be the best yourself. There's alot of freedom in not being cool by the way.=Nathan= said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Senior Don Juan
Linngggerr Longer!mtlwlu said:
I miss the bad old days where you could just post to "am I hot or not" to get some brutally instant feedback on how you looked.
Corey
Don Juan
but i must say
i strongly dislike that hoodie, maybe beucase where i come from only asian teenagers wear it. Imo it doesn't suit you and your facial expression
go for a clothing style more sophistated and casual
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.