"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Am I putting off "leave me alone" vibes?

Eighth Passenger

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I'm attractive. I'm not fat (actually pretty slim 5'10'' 145lbs). I walk with confidence. My wardrobe is acceptable. Basically I don't have any outstanding negative qualities that'll turn a female off.

So why don't females smile when I walk pass them? Or giggle when they see me? Or at least show some kind of interest?

I'm not saying I never experienced a female giving me attention, but it's usually an unattractive or overweight chick.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do you give them eye contact? If so, who looks away first?

Some girls will not look at you, period.. or anybody else for that matter.
 

daceovspades

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They are intimidated.
 

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Tell me if this work...When walking by look into her eyes and smile. Say "Hey" or "Hello". Works for me. I always get a smile in return (sometime they blush)

The key is making eye contact, if I don't make eye contact she simply ignores me as if I'm not there.
 
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I have the same problem! Iam 6 feet, 140 pounds, pretty attractive, and young. This happens to me often, I make eye contact and smile either to late ( they have already looked away) or smile and get little, no, or a weird Reaction!!! ARRRRRRR!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by The TallOne
Do you give them eye contact? If so, who looks away first?

Some girls will not look at you, period.. or anybody else for that matter.
I give everyone eye contact. They look at me for about 2-3 seconds then look away.
 

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Originally posted by Unforsaken
Tell me if this work...When walking by look into her eyes and smile. Say "Hey" or "Hello". Works for me. I always get a smile in return (sometime they blush)

The key is making eye contact, if I don't make eye contact she simply ignores me as if I'm not there.
I will try your suggestion. Right now I only give EC and smile.
 
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