"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Am I putting off "leave me alone" vibes?

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I'm attractive. I'm not fat (actually pretty slim 5'10'' 145lbs). I walk with confidence. My wardrobe is acceptable. Basically I don't have any outstanding negative qualities that'll turn a female off.

So why don't females smile when I walk pass them? Or giggle when they see me? Or at least show some kind of interest?

I'm not saying I never experienced a female giving me attention, but it's usually an unattractive or overweight chick.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do you give them eye contact? If so, who looks away first?

Some girls will not look at you, period.. or anybody else for that matter.
 

daceovspades

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They are intimidated.
 

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Tell me if this work...When walking by look into her eyes and smile. Say "Hey" or "Hello". Works for me. I always get a smile in return (sometime they blush)

The key is making eye contact, if I don't make eye contact she simply ignores me as if I'm not there.
 
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I have the same problem! Iam 6 feet, 140 pounds, pretty attractive, and young. This happens to me often, I make eye contact and smile either to late ( they have already looked away) or smile and get little, no, or a weird Reaction!!! ARRRRRRR!!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by The TallOne
Do you give them eye contact? If so, who looks away first?

Some girls will not look at you, period.. or anybody else for that matter.
I give everyone eye contact. They look at me for about 2-3 seconds then look away.
 

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Originally posted by Unforsaken
Tell me if this work...When walking by look into her eyes and smile. Say "Hey" or "Hello". Works for me. I always get a smile in return (sometime they blush)

The key is making eye contact, if I don't make eye contact she simply ignores me as if I'm not there.
I will try your suggestion. Right now I only give EC and smile.
 
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