"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Am I putting off "leave me alone" vibes?

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I'm attractive. I'm not fat (actually pretty slim 5'10'' 145lbs). I walk with confidence. My wardrobe is acceptable. Basically I don't have any outstanding negative qualities that'll turn a female off.

So why don't females smile when I walk pass them? Or giggle when they see me? Or at least show some kind of interest?

I'm not saying I never experienced a female giving me attention, but it's usually an unattractive or overweight chick.
 

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Do you give them eye contact? If so, who looks away first?

Some girls will not look at you, period.. or anybody else for that matter.
 

daceovspades

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They are intimidated.
 

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Tell me if this work...When walking by look into her eyes and smile. Say "Hey" or "Hello". Works for me. I always get a smile in return (sometime they blush)

The key is making eye contact, if I don't make eye contact she simply ignores me as if I'm not there.
 
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I have the same problem! Iam 6 feet, 140 pounds, pretty attractive, and young. This happens to me often, I make eye contact and smile either to late ( they have already looked away) or smile and get little, no, or a weird Reaction!!! ARRRRRRR!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Eighth Passenger

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Originally posted by The TallOne
Do you give them eye contact? If so, who looks away first?

Some girls will not look at you, period.. or anybody else for that matter.
I give everyone eye contact. They look at me for about 2-3 seconds then look away.
 

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Originally posted by Unforsaken
Tell me if this work...When walking by look into her eyes and smile. Say "Hey" or "Hello". Works for me. I always get a smile in return (sometime they blush)

The key is making eye contact, if I don't make eye contact she simply ignores me as if I'm not there.
I will try your suggestion. Right now I only give EC and smile.
 
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