"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Am I putting off "leave me alone" vibes?

Eighth Passenger

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I'm attractive. I'm not fat (actually pretty slim 5'10'' 145lbs). I walk with confidence. My wardrobe is acceptable. Basically I don't have any outstanding negative qualities that'll turn a female off.

So why don't females smile when I walk pass them? Or giggle when they see me? Or at least show some kind of interest?

I'm not saying I never experienced a female giving me attention, but it's usually an unattractive or overweight chick.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do you give them eye contact? If so, who looks away first?

Some girls will not look at you, period.. or anybody else for that matter.
 

daceovspades

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They are intimidated.
 

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Tell me if this work...When walking by look into her eyes and smile. Say "Hey" or "Hello". Works for me. I always get a smile in return (sometime they blush)

The key is making eye contact, if I don't make eye contact she simply ignores me as if I'm not there.
 
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I have the same problem! Iam 6 feet, 140 pounds, pretty attractive, and young. This happens to me often, I make eye contact and smile either to late ( they have already looked away) or smile and get little, no, or a weird Reaction!!! ARRRRRRR!!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by The TallOne
Do you give them eye contact? If so, who looks away first?

Some girls will not look at you, period.. or anybody else for that matter.
I give everyone eye contact. They look at me for about 2-3 seconds then look away.
 

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Originally posted by Unforsaken
Tell me if this work...When walking by look into her eyes and smile. Say "Hey" or "Hello". Works for me. I always get a smile in return (sometime they blush)

The key is making eye contact, if I don't make eye contact she simply ignores me as if I'm not there.
I will try your suggestion. Right now I only give EC and smile.
 
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