"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
am i bein a *****
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Mr. Unique
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WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
If this is a once a week thing, then it's no biggy. But if you're hauling his butt to work every night, then you have a problem. Is there public transportation where you live? He can take a bus.
It's the law of supply & demand: If you supply a ride, you should demand some money to pay for it.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
If you ever find your self asking this question, chances are you're being a pvssy.
If he's paying for your gas and time then fine...If it doesn't bother you, go for it. Nothing wrong with helping out friends.
But if he does nothing in return for the favor, tell him to take the bus.
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
I assume that this is a daily thing?
It's OK to occasionally give rides if people need them (like if one day their motorcar is in the shop).
It's not OK if it's every day. You are essentially being a taxicab. Taxicabs charge money, so charge accordingly.
Tell him to buy is own damn motorcar.
Ben
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
HAHA:crackup:Originally posted by Mr. Unique
Of course you're an assh*le, you should be sucking him off for him letting you live with him.
Really though, if your not getting anything from it than why bother? Be a man and do something usefu with your time. If your mate can catch a bus or hail a cab he should.
Digression is cool though, if you have nothing else to do, driving your friend around is probably the best thing going for you.