"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Mr. Unique
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WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
If this is a once a week thing, then it's no biggy. But if you're hauling his butt to work every night, then you have a problem. Is there public transportation where you live? He can take a bus.
It's the law of supply & demand: If you supply a ride, you should demand some money to pay for it.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
If you ever find your self asking this question, chances are you're being a pvssy.
If he's paying for your gas and time then fine...If it doesn't bother you, go for it. Nothing wrong with helping out friends.
But if he does nothing in return for the favor, tell him to take the bus.
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
I assume that this is a daily thing?
It's OK to occasionally give rides if people need them (like if one day their motorcar is in the shop).
It's not OK if it's every day. You are essentially being a taxicab. Taxicabs charge money, so charge accordingly.
Tell him to buy is own damn motorcar.
Ben
ethnomethodologist
Master Don Juan
HAHA:crackup:Originally posted by Mr. Unique
Of course you're an assh*le, you should be sucking him off for him letting you live with him.
Really though, if your not getting anything from it than why bother? Be a man and do something usefu with your time. If your mate can catch a bus or hail a cab he should.
Digression is cool though, if you have nothing else to do, driving your friend around is probably the best thing going for you.