I need some ones openion on this . i have been friends with my ex girl friend for 2-3 years now , we have both been in many othar relationships since then , but we kinda had a good thing going so we didnt end our friendship . but lately i realised that everytime i fall i am using her as my blanket and i had sex with her whenever i felt desperet . then i realized in my advencture in becoming a dj she is becoming my weekness so i took the blanket away in the most brutal way . then i tought to my self r u an idiet ? why the hell did you do that to the poor girl ? i guess i am just feeling guilty . i hope i did not misinterprete the dj bible . so did i do the right thing ?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Am i an idiet ?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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i think ur asking if ur an idiot, because i dont know what an idiet is. If so, you answered your own question. Sorry i was too amused by this to remember what your post said.
mate, dont let this site turn you into somebody you're not
let it improve you, gain tips, improve your quality of life
but don't let yourself turn into a pompous, self-loving, arragant a$$hole, (unless thats the kind of person you are already)
though that girl you described did seem alot like a FWB or booty call
let it improve you, gain tips, improve your quality of life
but don't let yourself turn into a pompous, self-loving, arragant a$$hole, (unless thats the kind of person you are already)
though that girl you described did seem alot like a FWB or booty call
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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plz dont make fun of the persian accent.Docs said:
tanx
Fob Out
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chakerym agha reza.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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^ Psst, it's situational dependant. I love my ex to death. 
That aside, he should move on..lol
That aside, he should move on..lol
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cyp6 said:
not always, sometimes its just being pisses, or feeling unappareciated. Or misunderstood even. Insecurity is such a general word. People r too complex to be described with "insecure"
I would say that it was a great situation reza. Sounds like you got along well with her, had no issues unresolved with her and got to **** her every so often. She probably enjoyed the situation too if she wasn't bringing up getting back together with you. I don't see a reason why this would be a bad situation.
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Well I don’t know how you handle your exes vorbis But if I say I never had any thought (or even better “ hope”) of getting back to her I would be lying I mean its not practically possible to be completely friends with some one , once you had some emotional or/and physical contacts. Despite all this I agree with what you are saying, that having some one like this around makes you feel good or at least not desperate and depressed when you are supposed to be. But the question is “Is that worth the weakness which you are creating by becoming dependent on this illusion of comfort. I say illusion cause I think a dj is defined as some one who is able to look ahead in life and be able to grasp on every new opportunity that pops up on the way . and the only time that he looks back is to learn from his mistakes . So in my own mind I just removed an obstacle. Something which was supposed to be over in the past. so that I can have a better view of the future .