I need some ones openion on this . i have been friends with my ex girl friend for 2-3 years now , we have both been in many othar relationships since then , but we kinda had a good thing going so we didnt end our friendship . but lately i realised that everytime i fall i am using her as my blanket and i had sex with her whenever i felt desperet . then i realized in my advencture in becoming a dj she is becoming my weekness so i took the blanket away in the most brutal way . then i tought to my self r u an idiet ? why the hell did you do that to the poor girl ? i guess i am just feeling guilty . i hope i did not misinterprete the dj bible . so did i do the right thing ?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Am i an idiet ?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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i think ur asking if ur an idiot, because i dont know what an idiet is. If so, you answered your own question. Sorry i was too amused by this to remember what your post said.
mate, dont let this site turn you into somebody you're not
let it improve you, gain tips, improve your quality of life
but don't let yourself turn into a pompous, self-loving, arragant a$$hole, (unless thats the kind of person you are already)
though that girl you described did seem alot like a FWB or booty call
let it improve you, gain tips, improve your quality of life
but don't let yourself turn into a pompous, self-loving, arragant a$$hole, (unless thats the kind of person you are already)
though that girl you described did seem alot like a FWB or booty call
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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plz dont make fun of the persian accent.Docs said:
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Fob Out
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chakerym agha reza.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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^ Psst, it's situational dependant. I love my ex to death. 
That aside, he should move on..lol
That aside, he should move on..lol
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cyp6 said:
not always, sometimes its just being pisses, or feeling unappareciated. Or misunderstood even. Insecurity is such a general word. People r too complex to be described with "insecure"
I would say that it was a great situation reza. Sounds like you got along well with her, had no issues unresolved with her and got to **** her every so often. She probably enjoyed the situation too if she wasn't bringing up getting back together with you. I don't see a reason why this would be a bad situation.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Well I don’t know how you handle your exes vorbis But if I say I never had any thought (or even better “ hope”) of getting back to her I would be lying I mean its not practically possible to be completely friends with some one , once you had some emotional or/and physical contacts. Despite all this I agree with what you are saying, that having some one like this around makes you feel good or at least not desperate and depressed when you are supposed to be. But the question is “Is that worth the weakness which you are creating by becoming dependent on this illusion of comfort. I say illusion cause I think a dj is defined as some one who is able to look ahead in life and be able to grasp on every new opportunity that pops up on the way . and the only time that he looks back is to learn from his mistakes . So in my own mind I just removed an obstacle. Something which was supposed to be over in the past. so that I can have a better view of the future .