"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Am I a pervert?

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I have a lot of unusual fantasies.

I’d like a woman to just be an exhibitionist of sorts, like a strip club but in real life…walking around naked, serving me nachos and drinks…cuddling with me while watching married with children (and actually thinking the show is funny, not just for my sake.)

I’d like to do a nude photo session with a woman…in bed together, even in sexual positions…not porn…just posing…or even a regular photo shoot where we’re two models and I’m behind her with my hands on her breasts like that Janet Jackson album cover from the 90s.


In general, 90 percent of the porn I look at is just women walking around after sex, their asses moving from left to right, or women skinny dipping.

Am I some kind of voyeur/exhibitionist/pervert?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is serious. I'm wondering if I asked a woman to indulge, if she'd think I was a weirdo.
 
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confusedstate said:
Am I some kind of voyeur/exhibitionist/pervert?
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Ooh, this one's easy. Ahem.

No.

If you start having fantasies about centaurs, then MAYBE. But no.
 
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confusedstate said:
This is serious. I'm wondering if I asked a woman to indulge, if she'd think I was a weirdo.
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You don't even want to know what I've had women indulge. Then again, maybe you do.

Anyone want some Shogun stories while I'm on my no-masturbation challenge?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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We're males, we're all perverts. Get used to it.
 
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Most of my GF have been into getting naked pictures shot and showing off their bodies. Several have stripped down in places that were technically public for a quick nudie photo series. Sex in places that are dangerous", etc.

Pretty girls like to see themselves and be admired. Simple.
 
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Lol wtf, I'm sure there are some people who might call you a "pervert" but who the hell cares ?! I don't particularly care for all that sh*t you mentioned ("married with children"...LOL) but if that's what you like, go out and get it!

You'll be surprised at how women will adapt for YOU when you're absolutely certain about what you want. As long as it's not illegal and doesn't cross your own personal moral boundaries, then go out and have fun!
 
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This is way less weird than being turned on by an extreme closeup of penis going into a vagina, stripped of all context. So you admire the female form. Why would that be weird?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheBucketOfTruth said:
This is way less weird than being turned on by an extreme closeup of penis going into a vagina, stripped of all context. So you admire the female form. Why would that be weird?
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Correct. There's nothing wrong with admiring the female form in fact it means that you are a perfectly healthy male.

If you were into looking at naked guys well then that's another story :eek:
 
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The other thing I want, for an LTR anyway, is for the girl to be really into fashion (I’m really into fashion but not into the latest trends, just care about wearing good outfits and being clean cut) and I’d like a girl to wear nice dresses/secretary outfits…nice blouses etc…so we can look like one of those power couples where women check me out and guys check her out lol.

Yes I’m aware I’m weird and an attention-wh0re.
 
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confusedstate said:
The other thing I want, for an LTR anyway, is for the girl to be really into fashion (I’m really into fashion but not into the latest trends, just care about wearing good outfits and being clean cut) and I’d like a girl to wear nice dresses/secretary outfits…nice blouses etc…so we can look like one of those power couples where women check me out and guys check her out lol.

Yes I’m aware I’m weird and an attention-wh0re.
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I was just gonna say, you sound a bit like a stereotypical "chick."

This thread got very Cosmo very fast.

Quick! Someone bust out a story of manliness all over this thread's A cup chest!
 
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To get back to the original topic…I have a picture of the type of body I like but I’m not sure if nude pics are allowed here?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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